Attracting an Older Guy Maintaining a Healthy Relationship with an Older Guy Avoiding Hazards When Dating Older Men Community Q&A When you are 18 or above, dating an older guy can be an exciting challenge.
While an older man will likely be more mature than the guys your own age, he’ll have an entirely different set of life experiences than you do.
You'd think that by the time a man is 40, he'd be focused, mature, and established. Ladies, don't get your feelings hurt when real life snaps you out of fantasy and back to reality. If that were the case, why would a man over 40 really need, or be receptive to, a life partner?
And the last thing you want is a man who "has everything" and therefore thinks of you as an accessory.
For example, they may desire financial stability, be attracted to a confident male who has clear goals, or find an older man able to be more sensual in the bedroom.
While your concerns are perfectly natural, keeping his interest is not as problematic as you might imagine.
In fact, you may find that dating an older man is actually easier than dating a man your age who is less mature than you.
They may have the bodies of demigods, but they can also have the emotional maturity of a walnut. Show her how even-headed you are and how readily able you are to talk about your feelings in a calm and responsive manner.
Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.